- Nigerian lady Evelyn Nneka Obasi said women who marry influential men rarely advertise marriage problems, not because their marriage is perfect, but because they choose to ignore flaws such as infidelity to maintain their homeland.
Nigerian woman Evelyn Nneka Obasi shares her view on why women marry rich or influential men rarely speak publicly about their marriage challenges.
According to her, this is not necessarily because such a marriage is flawless, but because these women master the art of neglecting their husbands’ shortcomings, including the infidelity.
Obasi suggests that this silence is a way to maintain appearance and protect your home despite the flaws behind the closed doors.
“To leave ODOGWU, you have to learn how to pretend you can’t see things. There’s a reason the older man’s wife doesn’t speak up on SM,” she wrote in a Facebook post Wednesday.
Who said the big guys you heard didn’t have cockroaches in the cupboard? Do you also think their wives don’t know? Have you seen the man’s wife rejecting a wife who looks like his child being dragged to? Maybe she might talk later? But does she not have it now? I’m very happy that as long as he doesn’t eat you, she will study modestly.
