- A social media commentator refuted the relevance of asking women about their sexual history, emphasizing that body count neither changes women’s bodies nor defines women’s value.
- She explained that even after delivery, the vagina naturally recovered its shape and clarified that virginity cannot be determined by bleeding.
A popular social media commentator has sparked debate about the importance of men to women’s sexual history.
She thinks that the number of people asking a woman’s past partner is meaningless:
“Does a woman tell you that her body number is 1, 2 or 30, and how do you expect to know the truth? The number of men a woman is with doesn’t affect her body.”
According to her, these problems reflect insecurity:
“The vagina is made up of muscles that can contract and relax, just like how a man’s muscle works. This means that a woman’s body returns to normal shape, no matter how many sexual partners she has.”
She added that childbirth also did not eliminate resilience:
“Even women who have multiple children can regain resilience through certain exercises.”
Regarding virginity, she clarified:
“Virginity should not be measured only by the presence or absence of bleeding during the first sex, and point out that many virgins are not bleeding, and some women may not leave sexual experiences without leaving visible signs. That’s why some men foolishly boast about “a girl” and when they are most likely a man, she used to be a man.”
Her posts have since caused mixed reactions online, some of which are interesting, some criticisms and many suggestions.
See some reactions below:
Igrindnonstop: “Women lie more about their bodies than men.”
Maestroroy: “This woman thinks she’s gas men, but what she’s actually doing is telling the players they’re the right players. Because why bother with them in the end?”
Xdealsgadgets: “That’s why you should marry a virgin. You can date non-Wilkin for purely sexual reasons. Just enjoy yourself and keep moving forward. But if marriage is your ultimate goal, Virgin should be your top choice.”
Seunspace: “If I didn’t meet her like a virgin, her body was 10 to me, any number between 1 and 100. As long as you didn’t meet her, her body number is everything she told you. It’s always best to assume the worst is, but hopefully she won’t be damaged.”
