- A Nigerian man has taken to social media to express concerns that interior designer Sandra Areh may have difficulty finding a spouse amid the ongoing controversy.
- Sandra Arey came into the spotlight on December 9, 2025, when Apostle Selman called her “my love” during a birthday celebration.
- The pastor has yet to clarify the nature of his relationship with Alley, leading to widespread dating rumors online.

A Nigerian man has taken to social media to express concerns that interior designer Sandra Areh may find it difficult to get married amid the ongoing controversy.
Sandra Areh recently attracted attention when Apostle Selman called her “my love” during her birthday celebration on December 9, 2025. The pastor has yet to clarify the nature of their relationship, sparking widespread dating rumors online.
Sharing his thoughts, Facebook user Jerry Smart Ekele said he hopes Sandra Areh will open up to other potential suitors. In his viral post, he suggested that she could remain unmarried if she didn’t end up with Apostle Selman.
He wrote: “As it stands, other men who may have viewed her as a potential partner already view her as the apostle’s wife. Many online even believe they are married. This confusion is disturbing. We should not allow this elegant woman to be treated unfairly.”
Ekeler also called on Apostle Selman to formalize their relationship, noting that the ambiguity surrounding his identity has hindered Sandra Are’s development with other prospects. According to his post, men who were interested in Sandra are now hesitant because they think she is the pastor’s partner.
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