- One man shares his thoughts on modern relationships, highlighting that simple romantic gestures are on the decline.
- He believes traditional symbols of love, such as sending flowers, are being replaced by monetary gifts.
- This shift points to deeper issues in today’s dating culture and changing priorities in how romance is expressed.

A man has sparked widespread reactions online after sharing his thoughts on modern relationships, arguing that the decline of simple romantic gestures reflects deeper issues in today’s dating culture.
In his post, he noted that traditional acts such as sending flowers have long symbolized love and thoughtfulness, but are increasingly being replaced by money. He believes the change marks a troubling shift in priorities.
Flowers represent affection and intentional care, he said, noting that the tradition still exists in other parts of the world where it originated. However, he observed that in Nigeria, cash gifts often replace symbolic gestures.
The man emphasized that choosing money over meaningful expressions of love highlights growing materialism and reveals people’s values and character in relationships.
See the post below:
Read some of the comments below:
@Josiahbig_1: “Fact: Men are the ones driving it all. Every wrong in society is caused by men (simps).”
@Samzonal: “Toor, flower. For a Nigerian girl?”
@dannybnxk: “My husband will know she has met a consciously wealthy man who adheres to good deeds in the traditional sense. When wealth is no longer the pursuit, the character of poverty will be revealed.”
@Efedrift: “So, before colonialism, weren’t flowers supposed to show love? Answer this question first.”
@Nate0x0x “I never understood the point of that. It was crude and just cheapened the action. We make money.”
