- Kikilomo Abati, wife of journalist Dr Ruben Abati, has shared insights into her past relationships.
- She revealed that she had gone through two divorces before getting married.
- In an interview on “The Morayo Show,” she discussed the challenges she faced in her previous marriage.

Kickelomo Abati, wife of veteran journalist Dr. Reuben Abati, recently opened up about her past relationships, revealing that she went through two divorces before finding contentment in her current marriage.
In an interview with The Morayo Show, Mrs. Abati opened up about the challenges she faced in her previous marriages and the valuable lessons they taught her.
She shared that her first marriage ended after a shocking discovery: She found out her husband was gay, something he had hidden until they got married. “For a twice-divorced woman, I unknowingly married a gay man for the first time. Let me get this off my chest,” she said. Her disclosure sparked widespread discussion online, with many expressing sympathy for the emotional pain she has endured.
She explained that her second marriage was also fraught with difficulties. Mrs Abati described her ex-husband as abusive and unfaithful, calling him “the biggest playboy and abuser”. She said a combination of betrayal and abuse ultimately led to the breakdown of the marriage.
Despite the difficulties, she stressed that she did not regret the relationship. In fact, she considers these experiences to be so valuable because they have brought her and her children the greatest blessings of their lives.
Reflecting on her journey, Mrs. Abati noted that past challenges in her marriage helped shape her character and prepared her to know and cherish true love. Today, she describes her life as calm and stable, grateful for the lessons she’s learned along the way.
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Read some of the comments below:
@shollycutie: “Wow. So many lessons learned from them. What an inspiring story. I have hope too”
@aenig.ma: “We need to really focus on this epidemic of bisexuals and deceiving people into marrying them. I have heard of too many cases, especially in Lagos and Abuja.”
@i_am_west_jr7: “What are your own flaws in your marriage? They are all bad people, but you are the good one ozwor”
