- A Nigerian woman sparked an online discussion when she shared a relationship issue on X (formerly Twitter).
- She mentioned a man who offered to drive her to work every day for free.
- To repay his kindness, she shared food with him while cooking.
A Nigerian woman has opened up about a relationship problem on X (formerly known as Twitter), sparking mixed reactions from social media users and sparking widespread discussion online.
In the post, she revealed that a man offered to drive her to work every day without asking for any payment. To express her gratitude, she said she usually shared food with him when she cooked.
However, the arrangement reportedly took an unexpected turn when the man admitted his feelings for her and said her kindness and delicious food made him fall in love. She noted that she was already in a relationship and the man was aware of this fact.
Unsure of how to proceed, the woman turned to the public for advice on whether she should tell her boyfriend about the situation and how best to deal with the man who drove her.
She wrote: “There was a man who drove me to work every day and didn’t charge me a penny, so every time I cooked I would try to bring him food to show my appreciation.
“Now he says he loves me and my food has won his heart. The problem is I have a man and he knows it.
“Should I tell my man this? I don’t know what to do with him.”
The post quickly gained traction online, prompting a range of reactions ranging from pointed criticism to thoughtful guidance.
See the post below:
Read some of the comments below:
@Fozz: “Do you want to tell your man that your driver likes you? Skills matter, you’re suited to operate at a low level.”
@Adeyeye: “Why are you confused when you have a man. If you want to cheat, be bold Ogbeni.”
@Queen Oma: “You have to be transparent here and not create problems for your future. Is the man you are referring to your husband? Tell him if he is your husband.”
@Dazi: “Depends on what you’re worth! But you know who your heart beats for! An act of kindness is actually enough to stir up emotion, and that’s where communication comes in.
“If you don’t want it to go further without losing the chance to hitchhike, and you don’t like admiring the food? Tell him.”
@Adedee: “No need to tell your man, look at them both and choose the one that suits you, don’t tell me as you drive to work, choose me.”
@Wagon: “Then you have to stop free riding and go work for yourself.”
