A tragic story surfaced online about a woman identified as Doosuur, whose husband, Sefa Awen, reportedly died after cheating on her.
The heartbreaking incident was shared on Facebook by netizen Shamimi Anase, who revealed that Doosuur had high blood pressure following a marital crisis related to her husband’s alleged infidelity.
According to The Post, Dusal found her husband romantically involved with a woman named Lovis, one of his unusual female “godsman” during the wedding.
It is said that shocking revelation worsened her health and led to her premature death.
Full account reading:
“What’s wrong with our friend Doosuur Henrietta Agbatar?
These are the details we know.
Doosuur fell ill about a week before her death. She complained about chest pain and shortness of breath and was treated all the time. On the evening of July 31, 2025, when Sefa Awen, the man she loved and married, picked her up at around 6:30 pm, she was obviously weak and could hardly go short distances. He took her home instead of taking her to the hospital.
Whenever she gets sick, he has this usual way of scolding her and saying she is just pretending so that he will pay attention to her. We can show that at about 7:40 pm, she was rushed to the hospital instead of being rushed to the hospital. Dangbar. Joe arrived before 9 p.m. and he touched her body and realized she was dead. The nurse confirmed that she had been away for some time before she arrived. Medical professional Dr. Uzer confirmed that his phone call was called around 7:18 pm, asking for a prescription, and within less than thirty minutes, her body was given to him, lifeless. So far, there is no explanation for what happened between 6:30 and 7:40 pm when she was taking care of her in SEFA.
The tragedy of that night cannot be isolated from the abuse and betrayal of Dusour that he suffered within 11 months of marriage.
It was revealed from the beginning that SEFA is exploitative. He collected Doosuur’s mother’s Toyota Highlander SUV through Doosuur, sold it without disclosure, and never replaced it as he promised. Instead, he bought the proceeds in his own name.
He put pressure on Doosuur to obtain 4 million yuan in loans from the NGO she led, which he used to partially buy the land and mercilessly pester her to start building on it. She also established a laundry business for him on the North Shore.
He wants absolute control. After he moved into Doosuur’s apartment within two weeks of the wedding…yes, none of them lived in her apartment, he asked her to resign as the executive director of the NGO and sit at home with his wife so that he could take over. This is a man whom he hires himself. At some point, Doosuur is not worth sitting on the chair of the executive director, but because she loves Sefa so much that she can be peaceful even if she sits in the ED chair so that she can get up so that he can sit on the ED. I work in the same NGO and I personally know this fact.
Shortly before the wedding, he publicly told the staff that since some of us had been watching him, he went to the boss and now put her in his pocket, and then he gave us the wedding invitation card.
Doosuur refused to step down and confides us, begging us to keep her disclosure secret as Sefa threatened her that their marriage would end if their problems were made public. She begged us not to even share this with our family.
Abuse is also emotional and physical. He showed off his affairs with other ladies, almost never slept at home, and made a bold call among the other women in front of her.
By January 20, 2025, Sefa Awen even proposed a secret marriage to a Loveth Orva (also known as Love Loveth) on Facebook. What Reverend Awen and the Awen family hide is that Loveth had a close relationship with Sefa’s own brother David Awen. Doosuur first discovered their involvement, precisely because of Sefa and Loveth’s dispute over David. Later, she found intimate chats on SEFA’s phone, confirming her worst fears. Doosuur made a mistake of plugging his WhatsApp into a long time to see what he did with Loveth. She left a proof of this, which she wanted to use as a screenshot of evidence of her divorce.
Apparently, Loveth single-handedly destroyed that marriage.
Imagine knowing every step of your husband when he looks into your face and goes out to sleep with another woman, but because you love him so much, you decide not to face him after he insults and threatens you before facing him once, and then you fill it all up until your heart fails and you die. Three months after the wedding, Doosuur developed blood pressure.
She found Loveth and Sefa sleeping in the same hotel together and dressing him up on the wedding morning. Loveth then chats with Sefa, “Go to be a good husband.”
Loveth then dressed up in pants and attended the wedding train as a “godsman”.
After the wedding, Sefa remained in their hotel room, went to Loveth to spend time with Loveth and returned to Doosuur early the next morning.
This is actually what prompted Doosuur to investigate what happened and discover that Sefa is having a relationship with the person he saved on his phone as Anshawa and her foreign number and Lyuba and her Nigerian number. Later, she discovered that these were alias for Loveth Orva, whose Facebook page was Love Loveth, and she was a married woman.
Sefa expressed his pride in her chat with Nyash. Yes, you read the correct one, Nyash. Your innocent guy licked another man’s wife’s anus and chatted proudly.
Why doesn’t DOO find high blood pressure that finds this?
This has caused a very serious loss to DOO’s health. In March 2025, she collapsed in their home and he ignored her help until Barr. Joe intervenes and calls him and asks him to take her to the hospital. She noted in the dairy that he later scolded her for trying to scold her by calling her brother to tell him about his situation and the fact that he refused to take her to the hospital.
Despite this pain, she begged Barr. Joe doesn’t meet Sefa because they see a marriage counselor. She told me it was Mrs. Victoria Dale.
The woman learns in detail about Doosuur’s plight. In fact, Doosuur told me that after a consultation meeting with them, the counselor told Sefa that if Doosuur was her daughter, she would beat her up and pack her stuff home.
In early April, Barr. Joe tells her he will come to pack her stuff, but she begs them to see the counselor and should give her some time. She said Sefa seemed to be working on making things right, even bringing her to the mango world where they took their time and took photos. Well, it seems that an evil person can only pretend for a while…
You will be interested that from June DOO has made up his mind to leave the marriage. She plans to travel abroad to study further and start her life again. Sadly, Doosuur never lived to execute the plan. She died when the money she needed to travel abroad was about to fall into her account.
At that time, some of us began to hear Doosuur about the third woman who died in a relationship with SEFA. During a chat with Loveth, he expressed concern that anyone close to him would eventually die, and she promised him that she would not die. You will read the chat as soon as possible. Don’t worry.
Now, if you still suspect that SEFA’s priority is to consider his behavior less than 14 hours after her death.
On the morning of 1 August 2025, at about 7:30 am, he called us (the staff of the NGO) to attend a meeting: “It is known that the lady is now officially dead. I am now responsible and the work must continue…” This statement is greater than any speech about sympathy and self-interest.
Based on this, we find it ridiculous that Pastor Awen turns around and blames Barr. Joe invades their houses and takes over property. First of all, this is Doosuur’s apartment and Sefa Awen just lives with her. The items retrieved are strictly organizational assets, including: the organization’s company merger documents, phone calls belonging to Doosuur’s mother, but are used for the work of NGOs, which contains all NGO banking apps and mother’s banking apps, laptops, an iPad, and iPad belonging to NGO activities and used for NGO activities. Before he went there, Barr. Joe called Sefa and Pastor Victor and explained what he needed and why they were needed. Sefa himself leads Barr with his friends. Joe went to the house to point out where the items were retained. However, in their public statement, they pretended that he had attacked the house without authorization. In fact, he protected the organization’s property when SEFA had already begun to position himself as his successor, less than a day after Doosuur’s death.
Then, hearing Pastor Awen talk about compassion and process while ignoring abuse, infidelity, economic exploitation and his brother’s serious insensitivity is an insult to the memory of Doosuur. She is not only a replacement wife. She is our friend and even if her family lets go, we will use the straightforward records we know.
She lives through betrayal, exploitation and abuse, and dies in deep circumstances. It is pathetic for Pastor Awen to hide the truth while talking about the things in the scriptures and emotions.
The Awen family is a terrifying person, including the priest. You all said there was no diary, right? Now, everyone will soon read it with their eyes and form another false in defense.
The diary reveals that even the Awen family knows what Doosuur is going through. Thankfully, we got these before our family decided to let go. No one can stop us from posting them.
You must not shoot a person until you kill it. Loveth and Sefa killed our friends. She died of heart failure and depression.
If Sefa was indeed a loving husband, why would his wife write a horrible experience with him?
If he was indeed a good person, why did his sister Shidoo also hire her to control SEFA, but their family is wiser and Doosuur would continue to suffer from marital pain?
They cannot bury her body and her truth. Our friends, we will not be silent.
We owe the truth, and we will restore her dignity by revealing it.
Even if this won’t bring our booboo back to its original state, it will be left behind for the next woman who may become a victim of Sefa, eventually dying from his relationship.
May Booboo’s memory be blessed 🙏”
