- Popular Nigerian pastor Ebuka Obi’s relationship advice for single women has sparked online discussion.
- In a recent sermon, he emphasized that women should not limit themselves to men who have not yet clearly shown an interest in marriage.
- A clip of his sermon went viral on X (formerly Twitter), shared by user @honest30bgfan.
Popular Nigerian pastor Ebuka Obi sparked online discussion after he gave candid advice to single women about relationships in a recent sermon.
In a video that went viral on X (formerly Twitter) shared by @honest30bgfan, Pastor Obi suggested that women should not limit themselves to single men who have not expressed a clear desire to marry.
He encouraged women to religiously approach and observe multiple suitors, but not to become intimate, until they found the right partner.
“Date four, five, six guys. Just make sure you don’t sleep with any of them. You can even consider three at a time to find the one God will choose,” he said.
The pastor emphasized that it was acceptable to talk to multiple men without clearly expressing the intention to marry, and that exclusivity should only begin at the time of engagement, not in the early stages of dating.
He also questions why many women remain loyal to men who have never discussed marriage, met their families or made plans for the future.
“When God chooses the right person, that person takes action to propose marriage,” he added.
The sermon sparked mixed reactions online, with some users criticizing the advice while others praised it for being true. The discussion continues to highlight the debate surrounding dating and commitment in today’s relationships.
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