- Nigerian man Chibuzor Onwurah shared a touching story about how his father taught him a lesson about alcohol before he went to university.
- His father poured him a beer and encouraged him to try it at home if he wanted to drink, stressing the importance of moderation.
- Chibzor said the experience made him realize he didn’t like drinking and never felt pressured to drink or smoke at school.
Nigerian man Chibuzor Onwurah shares the important life lessons his father taught him about alcohol before going to college.
Chibzor recalled that his father once poured a bottle of Star beer into two glasses and asked him to take a sip. He felt very bitter and made a face, which made his father laugh and say:
“Nothing special. If you want to drink, drink it in the safety of your home and have a bottle once in a while.”
Chibzor revealed that the experience made him realize he didn’t like the taste of alcohol. When he was in school, he never felt pressured to drink or smoke because his father had told him it was no big deal.
He finally emphasized that good parenting is not about control but about trust, saying:
“Good parenting is not about control. It’s about trust, teaching limits, and creating a safe space for children to learn and grow.”
In other news… Nigerian rapper Emeka Akumefule, better known as Blaqbonez, says he is open to the idea of an open marriage.
Blake Bones recently appeared on the My Point of View podcast and discussed how intimacy in marriages declines over time, often due to a lack of sexual exploration outside of the relationship.
He said it was acceptable for married people to be intimate with other people if their spouse was away.
However, he emphasized that extramarital relationships should never replace the role of spouses in marriage.
He said, “I don’t mind an open marriage. Most married couples don’t have as much sex as they did in the beginning. It decreases.
“I can’t be intimate with her all the time if someone fulfills her sexually while I’m busy and on tour. And that’s okay. Marriage is more important than sex. I don’t mind if you sleep with someone else as long as you’re dedicated to me.
“It would be hard for a random person to match what I put in there. No one would make her sexually and mentally addicted. They probably wouldn’t be able to make her laugh like I can. If I were even going to get married, I would need two rooms. My wife and I would only see each other when we wanted to be intimate.”
