Media personality, Dotun shares valuable advice just before starting a relationship considering the needs of his partner’s family.
In an article shared on his X page, he highlights the importance of getting acceptance from his partner’s family, especially those who influence key decisions in the family.
DO2DTUN warns that a lack of family recognition can create unsustainable situations and warns not to rely on partners to constantly mediate or defend the relationship, as this can lead to emotional exhaustion.
His post was read
“Before choosing a partner, look at the family first. This is very critical. If the decision makers don’t like you, it’s over. If you expect your partner to stand in the gap, they will eventually break. If you have one now A partner who doesn’t care about it will be worse.”
If you are the means to end, then your happiness doesn’t matter. But be responsible and let your decision bring joy to your family or the day you drop the ball, that is, people who don’t like you will take advantage of your strengths.
As you expand it to others, let your sacrifice first expand to your sense of happiness. Your heart may be big enough to give it all, but your mind is not. It eventually ruins the heart. Family is not only what you do for them, but what they do for you. Happy Valentine’s Day everyone.”
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