Nigerian man Chidi Okoroafor says happiness in a family depends on the emotional and mental health of the women in the house.
The clinician recalled what his father grew up and said that the happier his wife was with the marriage, the more satisfied the family was generally.
According to him, any man who wants to enjoy a happy and healthy marriage should create a safe place for his wife and treat her with love and respect.
He wrote: “Growing up, my dad will tell us that when the woman in the house is happy, the whole family will be happy. When you make her sad, it will return to everyone in the family in one way or another.”
He tells us that when his wife doesn’t, a man can’t be truly happy, except for those beauty and short-lived happiness found in beer hotels, or endless feminization (which comes with a price). He further stated that even the children absorbed the happiness and sorrow of the mother.
I noticed that being with my mother, when I got married and started having children, the whole thing started to make more sense to me.
Here is a profound fact that I saw somewhere anonymously posted in a group. Everyone who wants to enjoy a happy marriage should think seriously, which is a verifiable fact.
There is no peace in the family when a woman is emotionally, spiritually and financially submerged and neglected husband. Men settle in peaceful places, and only women can create peace when they are treated with love, respect and care. You can’t expect a woman to build a shelter when she is mentally tired, her soul is hurt, and her soul feels uncomfortable.
